You're Gonna Make It

fresh off a massive wave... (and I'm not talking about surfing)

The other day I was texting with a friend who was rapidly approaching the one year anniversary of a very Big Loss. She was in the thick of a crashing grief wave. And I was (am)… freshly… again… out from under a grief wave of my own.

Just last week I felt myself break through the surface. Colors started to come back, the grey scale of deep grief fading a…